In recent days my friend’s daughter died and the complications and feelings of devastation that arose during this time have resulted in this post. I was surprised that I was affected so deeply. Even though my experience was dwarfed by the pain of the family, it affects me still. Their feelings have overwhelmed them. Their loss, like a pebble dropped in a pond, has pushed out and affected people further afield – friends and colleagues.Their ability to manage work has been severely compromised and so the…