I will help you challenge those whispers that cause you to stumble in your career.


I support executives to live and work in more successful ways as I challenge their coping strategies, building relationships of trust and discretion.


My inspirational story of healing and wholeness will enliven the audience as I speak with brutal honesty of failing and falling and rising again.

What I Can Do For You

I am based in Tunbridge Wells, working as an Executive coach across Kent in the of towns of Sevenoaks, Maidstone and in London. I gained level 5 Executive coaching diploma with The Institute of Leadership and Management, often finding myself working with those in senior positions ensuring that they advance in life and work and live in the best possible way.

My experience working as a counsellor with over 20 years enhances my executive coaching and ensures that it is of a depth to benefit those is who are in positions of leadership.

As a leadership coach I work with those responsible for inspiring a work-force to be all that they can be. This is a challenging and somewhat exhausting role if not managed with finesse. Leadership coaching can cover stress management and communication skills as well as other areas.

Business team coaching enhances communication within teams, as different personality types struggle to be heard, appreciated, recognised and encouraged.

Small business coaching can really enhance the effectiveness of a small team to work efficiently to a common goal. It can iron out issues that naturally occur in more intimate settings, providing a platform to speak with consideration to team members.

As a career coach I support individuals to discover their potential whether to progress higher within an organisation or to change and challenge their present position.

I am known as a challenging coach who facilitates focus and change in all who work with me. I ensure that my clients are given the space to understand and thrive in life and the workplace. Goals that are set are refined and achieved as I take no prisoners with my gift of questions.

Can I see you at work?

Yes, I can travel and meet you in your office whether in Sevenoaks, Tonbridge, Maidstone, London or across Kent. Or even in a mutually agreed place, if you wish you can meet me in my office where I am based in Tunbridge Wells. There is no limit to location as I successfully do executive coaching sessions via Skype if necessary.

Please get in touch via the contact page on my e mail or my mobile +447968669648 if you would like a chemistry call to discover if I am a good fit.


Susie coached me on relationships with my mother, wife, staff and on line management. I gained confidence; becoming the real me and be more assertive. I developed a more pro-active approach to managing work and colleagues.

I was able to cultivate an adult-to-adult relationship with a demanding, difficult and offensive elderly mother; take possession of more ‘space’ at home and develop a better decision making role and re-evaluating childhood issues.

Susie’s interest in her clients is genuine and it is rewarding to speak to someone who is attentive. She interprets accurately and sensitively and clearly enjoys her work. She questions and challenges and makes one think and work positively. I would recommend her.

Simon Bradburn

I came to Susie for coaching on management and would highly recommend her. I became more aware of how I came come across and learnt to let go of things – always aiming to strike the right balance. I found Susie very easy to talk to and down to earth.

Emma Allwright

Susie’s coaching enabled me to bring long term goals into real goals rather than pie in the sky. We focussed on health and the importance to my family, this helped me to change my thought processes to I can and not just carry on with the same excuses. It was really beneficial and she was very easy to communicate with. I would definitely recommend her.

Sarah Wiles

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About Susie Flashman Jarvis

One part of blogging is to write about myself. That in itself is a challenge, not because I don’t know myself but rather, I need to think about what I want you to know.

As a coach or a therapist the general rule of thumb is, don’t disclose things about yourself unless it is useful for the client. However, I believe in congruence and I believe that someone is more likely to be themselves if they experience authenticity in another.

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